That's modern technology; the worst of both worlds. The moralistic tyranny of the small town, but the crowded, violent, and lonely social environment of a major city.

That's what the mainstream chose, not what technology was by itself.

The "moralistic tyranny" is arguably the natural consequence of how humans are, but technology is what allowed it to scale.

No. The old internet had it's problems, but they maintained the boundary between the net and reality. The mainstream didn't, and I believe the attitudes of that larger society are circumstancial and shaped by certain forces.