The fact that it’s normalized to use obscene amounts of memory for tiny apps should not be celebrated.

I assure you, at scale this belief makes infra fall apart, and I’ve seen it happen so, so many times. Web devs who have never thought about performance merrily chuck huge JSON blobs or serialized app models into the DB, keep clicking scale up when it gets awful, and then when that finally doesn’t work, someone who _does_ care gets hired to fix it. Except that person or team now has to not only fix years of accumulated cruft, but also has to change a deeply embedded culture, and fight for dev time against Product.