> the idea of men having to be less social and aggressive

That's a gross misrepresentation.

Regarding aggression, in one's home, one doesn't want to and shouldn't have to explain things to others. One is supposed to be the king (or queen) of their home.

As for being social, sociologically speaking, men work to connect communities they don't belong to, whereas women connect the community they belong to.

Lastly, no, women do not suffer in silence. They are extremely vocal, often a lot more than men.