>Let's say our overall goal is to get to work showered, wearing clean clothes, and having brushed our teeth. After we showered and put on clean clothes, wouldn't you say that the remaining goal is to brush our teeth and get to work?

Yes, I agree! My issue is not with the reality of having reduced the problem to a different one, but with the "goal" metaphor, which is counterintuitive to how that term is normally used, especially since it connotes that each step is some brand new thing, rather than progress.

And sure, like any technical jargon, you can learn to accept some specialized term-of-art usage, but I'd prefer it be conducive to developing a correct ontology of what is going on in an assisted Lean proof.

While "subgoal" is better, I think the issue even goes back to calling the original theorem a "goal". Really, the goal is to prove the theorem. So a better term, more conducive to intuiting the Lean ontology, would be something like "[remaining] unresolved proof state", even though it's more verbose. (Perhaps you could get the best of both worlds with some kind of footnote for new users that clarifies that this is what "goal" means here.)

With that said, I appreciate the pushback, as your comment forced me to more carefully think about what I was objecting to.