The same with OP's post.

So far, I see that this post caused quite a few forks, the opposite of what the author asked for.

I don't have a solution.

I think as a man who runs conferences you shouldn't sleep with people who attend them. Or any other things like that, for that matter.

Should you be cancelled for that? No. But humans are humans.

There is no solution to this. Courts are also wrong all the time (look at OJ) and victims of SA almost never see justice.

The answer is: we don't know the truth.