> I do well in interviews, but I detest having people look over my shoulder while I code, and it absolutely tanks my performance.

Yeah, I basically forget how to use all the basic tools I use all the time and my mistake rate shoots up 10x when I'm just screen sharing in a chill context. I'm (told I'm) quite good at all the social side of the job, at keeping my cool in rough situations (social or technical), and all that, but specifically being watched while I work turns me into a sort of foolish klutz.

Which makes these kinds of interviews absolute hell, because that's their entire deal.