I read stories like this, and while I’m sympathetic to the fact that shit is expensive and that really sucks for some people, I can’t help but see “I’m allergic to toxic workplaces [and all workplaces are toxic]” as a huge, neon sign, pointing at the biggest issue.

Sorry, if every single place you ever work is “toxic”, it’s not likely the workplaces. It’s a serious personal issue. If you don’t want to deal with that, that’s fine, but you’re going to end up on the fringes, whether you think that’s right/wrong/fair/unfair.

At some point, it seems like you should face the fact that this is your life because you chose it.