I'm sure horde of Apple fanatics and useful idiots will gladly throw your wife under the bus, because:

* Just buy an Android if you don't like it

* This is not the Apple way

* My grandma has much better experience this way, because I don't have to some made up reason why this is impossible on Android

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* Much more secure this way

* I don't like when someone has different use case than I do

* It would be even worse on Android

* Think of the kids

Did I forget something?