My money is taken from me at gunpoint by government forces I cannot resist without facing life in prison. I don't want this money going to random causes I disagree with. The government should be far smaller or we cannot have rights as the government will intrude on us more and more.
> I don't want this money going to random causes I disagree with.
There certainly is _no_ government spending supported by _all_ Americans, so your position isn't a very practical approach to governance.
Lots of government spending is supported by the vast majority of Americans. Police, courts, fire, ambulance, and military (though size is up for debate).