I believe that's only half the issue. I'm suspecting companies don't actually know how to make an "uncensored" model (a model that acts like a tool, not refusing anything).
The way the refusals are phrased and how they respond if you press them to explain themselves is just too quirky to me. Even though the models respond with "I'm a model" in my tests they get pretty emotional in their refusals. "I feel uncomfortable with that".
This makes me think there's something wrong in their training process that's making these refusals. Or at least it's making refusals less predictable (false positives).