I also strongly believe it's not a headache.

Vendors frequently push that narrative so they can sell their own managed (or proprietary) solution on it. With a decent AI model (e.g ChatGPT Pro), it's easier than ever to figure out best practices and conventions.

That being said, my point is more about the organizational overhead. Deploying Kafka still means you need to learn how it works, why it's good, its configs, API, how to debug it, set up obesrvability, yada yada.